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	<title>Comments on: Sex Abuse &#38; Paige Patterson&#8217;s Blind Eye &#38; Deaf Ear</title>
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		<title>By: Nomadpreacher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nomadpreacher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In 1991 I was in a conference in Orlando where Gillyard spoke and was amazed at his eloquence and power.  

2 days later I read in the Orlando Sentinel of some of the various accusations that are listed above.  I have never gone to hear him since and WILL NOT! And if I her of people speaking of going to hear him, I always turn them away.  

As a young college student at the time, I have never been so disappointed in another.  He should be ashamed for the 100's to 1000's of men AND women he is leading astray with his preaching and lifestyle. 

I also think it is important to note, if there was allegations of rape, who else is culpable here?  The police, local small town government?  There should be a long list of people getting called out, not just PP and the SBC.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 1991 I was in a conference in Orlando where Gillyard spoke and was amazed at his eloquence and power.  </p>
<p>2 days later I read in the Orlando Sentinel of some of the various accusations that are listed above.  I have never gone to hear him since and WILL NOT! And if I her of people speaking of going to hear him, I always turn them away.  </p>
<p>As a young college student at the time, I have never been so disappointed in another.  He should be ashamed for the 100&#8217;s to 1000&#8217;s of men AND women he is leading astray with his preaching and lifestyle. </p>
<p>I also think it is important to note, if there was allegations of rape, who else is culpable here?  The police, local small town government?  There should be a long list of people getting called out, not just PP and the SBC.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 02:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No matter what happens in the future, this blog will serve its' purpose in exposing predators,whether physical or from the pulpit; both equally abhorrent!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No matter what happens in the future, this blog will serve its&#8217; purpose in exposing predators,whether physical or from the pulpit; both equally abhorrent!</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 02:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brunson, to this day, continues his abusive ways at FBC Jacksonville, while being paid a king's ransom.  He turns a blind eye to the truth and exploits a church that was once great; he and his advertising group and trustees have turned it in to a den iniquities.  He would not report a predator such as Gilyard, if it brought a negative light to himself.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Brunson is a PP wanna be and is just biding his time until he can take FBCJ for everything he can, and then run to PP for another position.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;His wife, Debbie, of course, was approved for the IMB through the personal influence of PP.  Enough said.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Thanks big dady weave for allowing my post.  Blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brunson, to this day, continues his abusive ways at FBC Jacksonville, while being paid a king&#8217;s ransom.  He turns a blind eye to the truth and exploits a church that was once great; he and his advertising group and trustees have turned it in to a den iniquities.  He would not report a predator such as Gilyard, if it brought a negative light to himself.</p>
<p>Brunson is a PP wanna be and is just biding his time until he can take FBCJ for everything he can, and then run to PP for another position.  </p>
<p>His wife, Debbie, of course, was approved for the IMB through the personal influence of PP.  Enough said.</p>
<p>Thanks big dady weave for allowing my post.  Blessings.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>C.B - any thoughts on nepotism?  If a pastor hires his wife and son to full time, salaried positions, shouldn't their job titles and duties at least be known, or listed on the web site like every other staff member?  Or would arrogance say "I don't need to explain anything to anybody."&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;What about a 6 bedroom, 4.5 bath mansion on the golf course in a gated community after only one year on the job?  Is that the message the baptist preacher is trying to send to the community?  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Why discuss this in this thread?  Because mega-church pastors, including Gilyard and Brunson, are able to abuse people because no one holds them accountable. As Southern Baptists, with autonomous churches, we rely on the congregations to police the pastors, not a church heirarchy.  But when they surround themselves with yes men, they are being put in a position to give in to their sinful flesh.  Some abuse members to get sexual favors.  Others take advantage of congregants to get money.  What do you suggest we do about it.  Leaving and going to another church won't help.  Confronting the pastor won't help.  ????</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>C.B - any thoughts on nepotism?  If a pastor hires his wife and son to full time, salaried positions, shouldn&#8217;t their job titles and duties at least be known, or listed on the web site like every other staff member?  Or would arrogance say &#8220;I don&#8217;t need to explain anything to anybody.&#8221;</p>
<p>What about a 6 bedroom, 4.5 bath mansion on the golf course in a gated community after only one year on the job?  Is that the message the baptist preacher is trying to send to the community?  </p>
<p>Why discuss this in this thread?  Because mega-church pastors, including Gilyard and Brunson, are able to abuse people because no one holds them accountable. As Southern Baptists, with autonomous churches, we rely on the congregations to police the pastors, not a church heirarchy.  But when they surround themselves with yes men, they are being put in a position to give in to their sinful flesh.  Some abuse members to get sexual favors.  Others take advantage of congregants to get money.  What do you suggest we do about it.  Leaving and going to another church won&#8217;t help.  Confronting the pastor won&#8217;t help.  ????</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 00:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>cb scott - you seem to be very opinionated on these kinds of matters.  What say ye about Mac Brunson accepting a $307,000 gift from a member only two weeks after he arrived? And don't say its not any of my business since it was a personal gift.  How do you know that.  Wouldn't common sense say no man would give another such a gift only two weeks after the pastor arrived.  Perhaps it was part of the enticement for him to come?  But if so, why not disclose that.  Wouldn't that reflect on his motives for coming?  He admitted he had told the committee "no" to their offer.  Maybe this swung him, or his wife?  Or if it is a blessing from the Lord, wouldn't he give praise and thanks to the Lord from the pulpit?  He has never acknowledged such a gift? Either way, it makes me question his integrity and motives as a preacher. Many lost people think preachers are only in it for the money. This makes it difficult for mac to ever claim his motives are pure.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;And C.B.- what do you think about by-law changes that are not freely distributed or discussed prior to a vote on them?  What about if they gave the pastor more power to appoint committee members and more authority in spending matters and formed a discipline committee.  Would this be a new pastor you could love, respect, and follow?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>cb scott - you seem to be very opinionated on these kinds of matters.  What say ye about Mac Brunson accepting a $307,000 gift from a member only two weeks after he arrived? And don&#8217;t say its not any of my business since it was a personal gift.  How do you know that.  Wouldn&#8217;t common sense say no man would give another such a gift only two weeks after the pastor arrived.  Perhaps it was part of the enticement for him to come?  But if so, why not disclose that.  Wouldn&#8217;t that reflect on his motives for coming?  He admitted he had told the committee &#8220;no&#8221; to their offer.  Maybe this swung him, or his wife?  Or if it is a blessing from the Lord, wouldn&#8217;t he give praise and thanks to the Lord from the pulpit?  He has never acknowledged such a gift? Either way, it makes me question his integrity and motives as a preacher. Many lost people think preachers are only in it for the money. This makes it difficult for mac to ever claim his motives are pure.  </p>
<p>And C.B.- what do you think about by-law changes that are not freely distributed or discussed prior to a vote on them?  What about if they gave the pastor more power to appoint committee members and more authority in spending matters and formed a discipline committee.  Would this be a new pastor you could love, respect, and follow?</p>
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		<title>By: CB Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>CB Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 21:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chuck,&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I stand by every word I said here including these; You do not know of what you speak.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;cb</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chuck,</p>
<p>I stand by every word I said here including these; You do not know of what you speak.</p>
<p>cb</p>
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		<title>By: Chuck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 17:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did any or all of those claiming to be victims of sexual assault file criminal charges?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Unless they did, or were willing to, it would be difficult to act decisively on their claims.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I haven't read everything on this, but I know Gilyard went through several years of restoration steps with Patterson, Vines and Falwell before landing the Jacksonville church.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It was last year before Falwell allowed him in the Thomas Road pulpit.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;CB Scott and Jerry Gerber both need to refrain from writing harsh personal words.  Sometimes words from our mouths are hard to harness in the heat of the moment, but those typed by our hands should be subject to self-control.  Unless you can type faster than you can talk.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did any or all of those claiming to be victims of sexual assault file criminal charges?</p>
<p>Unless they did, or were willing to, it would be difficult to act decisively on their claims.</p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read everything on this, but I know Gilyard went through several years of restoration steps with Patterson, Vines and Falwell before landing the Jacksonville church.  </p>
<p>It was last year before Falwell allowed him in the Thomas Road pulpit.</p>
<p>CB Scott and Jerry Gerber both need to refrain from writing harsh personal words.  Sometimes words from our mouths are hard to harness in the heat of the moment, but those typed by our hands should be subject to self-control.  Unless you can type faster than you can talk.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 13:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello everyone I want to tell you that I have read most of the posts here with utmost prayer and thought.  I am really not familiar with this case but I do feel for the victims.  I find it amazing that so many people in today's society are unaware of sexual abuse within all religions.  I was sexually assulted by a Southern Baptist Minister 40 years ago that's right 40.  I did find out later I was not the only one.  At the time the police said that they would not persue the situation because who would the public believe.  Years later I went to a Southern Baptist Convention in Florida At one point I noticed a group of pastors standing under a walk way laughing amongst themselves I also observed a group of woman watching the men and giggling amongst themselves. Closer observation of the men showed that they were standing under the walkway waiting for young woman to walk across so they could look up their dresses.  The woman were amused at the men and what they were doing.  I brought this to the attention of the Pastors wife I was with her response was I had better not catch my husband here.  Now not to take away from rapes and sexual misconduct and child abuse but thinking here for this situation who was doing wrong.  Later years found me working as a secretary in a Methodist church and every Sunday the minister would come into the office were the elders were counting the collection and fill his pockets with the loose change and bills from the collection plate we all seen him do it and again said nothing.  Satan hides in dark places these Pastors and Ministers see nothing wrong with what they are doing until the light is shined on them and they are caught.  A few years ago a woman started coming to my house (J. Witness) and she brought up the fact that I was Catholic and the point of all the priests that were in trouble with the church.  I tried to explain to her that that a sin is a sin and it happens in all religions because people tend to put Men in God's spot and Men or woman for that matter tend to let things go to their heads and put themselves above God.  She said Not in my church our elders report straight to God.  I retorted that so do all the other elders of all these other religions. The next week she showed up with one of her elders he was insistant that I need to go to a Bible Study with my friend I told him that my husband would not approve of that situation.  He suggested that I tell him I was going shopping or calling on a sick friend. I asked so you want me to lie to my husband?  I never saw the woman or her pastor again.  Again here who was wrong the day is close at hand for the Return of our Savior Jesus Christ (My best friend) He comands that we love one another as he has loved us.  We have to Love the victims but we also have to love the preditors This day and age shows the church's and religious party's closer to politics than ever before.  "I did not have sex with that woman"  It is time we put aside our differences and shine the light that is within us on all to see.  Pastors need to rethink why they wanted to be in the position they are in and if their answer is NOT to give Glory to God then they all need to resign.  If their answer is for the Glory of God then they need to make drastic changes in their life and remember thier job is 24/7 not a 9 to 5er Sorry for going off here but this article is just one little flashlight shinging when a big spot light is coming to shine on the whole world. I don't have an Identity code because I usually don't post here so I will sign here A Miller Pinellas County FL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello everyone I want to tell you that I have read most of the posts here with utmost prayer and thought.  I am really not familiar with this case but I do feel for the victims.  I find it amazing that so many people in today&#8217;s society are unaware of sexual abuse within all religions.  I was sexually assulted by a Southern Baptist Minister 40 years ago that&#8217;s right 40.  I did find out later I was not the only one.  At the time the police said that they would not persue the situation because who would the public believe.  Years later I went to a Southern Baptist Convention in Florida At one point I noticed a group of pastors standing under a walk way laughing amongst themselves I also observed a group of woman watching the men and giggling amongst themselves. Closer observation of the men showed that they were standing under the walkway waiting for young woman to walk across so they could look up their dresses.  The woman were amused at the men and what they were doing.  I brought this to the attention of the Pastors wife I was with her response was I had better not catch my husband here.  Now not to take away from rapes and sexual misconduct and child abuse but thinking here for this situation who was doing wrong.  Later years found me working as a secretary in a Methodist church and every Sunday the minister would come into the office were the elders were counting the collection and fill his pockets with the loose change and bills from the collection plate we all seen him do it and again said nothing.  Satan hides in dark places these Pastors and Ministers see nothing wrong with what they are doing until the light is shined on them and they are caught.  A few years ago a woman started coming to my house (J. Witness) and she brought up the fact that I was Catholic and the point of all the priests that were in trouble with the church.  I tried to explain to her that that a sin is a sin and it happens in all religions because people tend to put Men in God&#8217;s spot and Men or woman for that matter tend to let things go to their heads and put themselves above God.  She said Not in my church our elders report straight to God.  I retorted that so do all the other elders of all these other religions. The next week she showed up with one of her elders he was insistant that I need to go to a Bible Study with my friend I told him that my husband would not approve of that situation.  He suggested that I tell him I was going shopping or calling on a sick friend. I asked so you want me to lie to my husband?  I never saw the woman or her pastor again.  Again here who was wrong the day is close at hand for the Return of our Savior Jesus Christ (My best friend) He comands that we love one another as he has loved us.  We have to Love the victims but we also have to love the preditors This day and age shows the church&#8217;s and religious party&#8217;s closer to politics than ever before.  &#8220;I did not have sex with that woman&#8221;  It is time we put aside our differences and shine the light that is within us on all to see.  Pastors need to rethink why they wanted to be in the position they are in and if their answer is NOT to give Glory to God then they all need to resign.  If their answer is for the Glory of God then they need to make drastic changes in their life and remember thier job is 24/7 not a 9 to 5er Sorry for going off here but this article is just one little flashlight shinging when a big spot light is coming to shine on the whole world. I don&#8217;t have an Identity code because I usually don&#8217;t post here so I will sign here A Miller Pinellas County FL</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 02:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't see how accepting a $307,000 piece of land "for love and affection" only TWO WEEKS after taking the pastor position is any different than accepting "sexual favors" from a member.  In BOTH cases, the pastor takes advantage of the honor and respect of the POSITION of pastor to TAKE from a loving, trusting member.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Both Gilyard and Mac Brunson are GUILTY of taking advantage of their congregations.  One took sex, one took money.  Some take both.  Satan knows each man's weakness.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Where there is no accountability, abuses run rampant.  Either sex or money..Satan never has anything new.  Both had to feel good.  I dare say seeing a member sign over the deed to a $307,000 piece of land might even feel better than any sexual act.  They both should resign!  Gilyard did only after the press got wind of his acts.  When will Mac?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t see how accepting a $307,000 piece of land &#8220;for love and affection&#8221; only TWO WEEKS after taking the pastor position is any different than accepting &#8220;sexual favors&#8221; from a member.  In BOTH cases, the pastor takes advantage of the honor and respect of the POSITION of pastor to TAKE from a loving, trusting member.  </p>
<p>Both Gilyard and Mac Brunson are GUILTY of taking advantage of their congregations.  One took sex, one took money.  Some take both.  Satan knows each man&#8217;s weakness.</p>
<p>Where there is no accountability, abuses run rampant.  Either sex or money..Satan never has anything new.  Both had to feel good.  I dare say seeing a member sign over the deed to a $307,000 piece of land might even feel better than any sexual act.  They both should resign!  Gilyard did only after the press got wind of his acts.  When will Mac?</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie Kaufman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie Kaufman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2008 16:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen: I respect you as much as I do your husband. Which is a lot.  More could have been done without saying I didn't have the resources, I am not an investigator or judge. If I had the power of the college presidency, I would have stuck my neck out to stop this man. Going to the front of churches if I had to. Anything. It looks as if Paige's reputation was more important. That may not be the case, but it looks that way to me. Contrary to what is believed I am not a Paige Patterson hater. I wanted Paige to stay where he was and make some changes. I advocated for that strongly at the beginning of all of this. Frankly however, people are more important to me than whose in power.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Our churches, our schools of all the churches and schools in the world should be safe from this kind of thing. We supposedly have the true doctrine according to many, correct?  Why would I want my daughters to go to any seminary SB or church? We are so proud of being SB and the SBC. My question is why? Look at the scandals concerning sex and abuse that have surfaced from among our own? I'm not sure Paige or the churches can claim innocence on this. We certainly can't claim church autonomy. Most of the women were victims, they were not all willing participants and these women deserve closure and justice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen: I respect you as much as I do your husband. Which is a lot.  More could have been done without saying I didn&#8217;t have the resources, I am not an investigator or judge. If I had the power of the college presidency, I would have stuck my neck out to stop this man. Going to the front of churches if I had to. Anything. It looks as if Paige&#8217;s reputation was more important. That may not be the case, but it looks that way to me. Contrary to what is believed I am not a Paige Patterson hater. I wanted Paige to stay where he was and make some changes. I advocated for that strongly at the beginning of all of this. Frankly however, people are more important to me than whose in power.</p>
<p> Our churches, our schools of all the churches and schools in the world should be safe from this kind of thing. We supposedly have the true doctrine according to many, correct?  Why would I want my daughters to go to any seminary SB or church? We are so proud of being SB and the SBC. My question is why? Look at the scandals concerning sex and abuse that have surfaced from among our own? I&#8217;m not sure Paige or the churches can claim innocence on this. We certainly can&#8217;t claim church autonomy. Most of the women were victims, they were not all willing participants and these women deserve closure and justice.</p>
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